tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14190620.post1354390879007969093..comments2023-10-16T07:10:05.952-05:00Comments on BOHEMIAN adventures: happily ever after?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14190620.post-72746659052191083522008-08-06T14:23:00.000-05:002008-08-06T14:23:00.000-05:00Good morning! Responding to your question of feel...Good morning!<BR/><BR/> Responding to your question of feeling like one may not 'deserve' to be happy, I've struggled with this question off and on for years. When a person sheds the pre-condition, if you will, that they should or could only achieve a certain level of happiness, I think it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. In other words, a person is as happy as they allow themselves to be. <BR/> There are so many underlying influences, though, as far back as to how we were raised, how happy our parents may have been while interacting with each other (or not), self esteem issues, if a person was bullied as a child, etc. When a person realizes their self worth and can be pleased with accomplishments that are meaningful to them, I think that happiness is inside our hearts all along.<BR/> Sometimes it can be a life-long struggle, but if a person can pinpoint those things that do make them happy, it can truly grow from within.<BR/><BR/>Happiness for all!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com